I hate church rules.

Why do churches have to be so damned exclusive???? I mean don't get me wrong or anything, I'm a Christian, but when I look at Churches that REQUIRE you to attend THEIR church to get married there... nevermind i already GO to another church, they just cant have weddings there cause there's no PLACE to have one... or the fact that if you're a member its free to have your wedding there, but if you're NOT a member you have to pay a set fee... or get this, i called a friend's church and I mentioned that I was 'friends with a member that recommended I call," and they said "oh, well... we dont allow outside people usually... you'd have to talk to the pastor, we wont let an outside pastor to it, hed have to do it..." OUTSIDE PEOPLE?! wtf??????? AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGH. i thought ALL churches were supposed to be the Church of God???? whatever happened to that people? huh? HUH?!